Things to remember for a better life!
1. LIFE IS VERY SHORT
Deep down we are always aware that life is very short and that death will happen to everyone in the end, but we are still extremely surprised when we see it happen to someone we know. It's like walking up the stairs with a confused mind and misjudging the last step. You think there will be another flight of stairs, and for a moment you find yourself floating in mid-air, before your mind returns and you realize what the real world is like.
Live for today! Don't ignore death, but don't fear it either. Fear will keep you from ever truly living because you are too afraid to act. Death is not the greatest loss in this life. The greatest loss is what died within you even while you were alive. Be brave and courageous. Just be afraid of death, and take the next step.
2. YOU LIVE THE LIFE YOU CREATE
Your life is yours alone. Others may try to convince you, but they cannot decide for you. They can walk with you, but not in your shoes. So make sure that the path you choose to follow is based on your own intuition and desires, and don't be afraid to change direction or create a new path when needed.
Remember, it's always better to be at the bottom of the mountain you want to climb than at the top of the mountain you don't want to climb. Do well and be patient. And then you'll realize that patience isn't really about waiting, but about the ability to keep the right attitude while working hard for what you believe in. This is your life, and it is made up entirely of your choices. Let your actions speak for you. Let life itself preach on your lips. Let success be your resounding voice until the end.
And if life teaches you only one thing, let it take a passionate leap, this is truly worth it. Even if you don't know where you're going, have the courage to go somewhere you've never known before, and listen to your heart.
3. BEING BUSY DOES NOT MEAN EFFICIENCY
Being busy is not a virtue, or something to be admired. Although we all have times when our work schedules go crazy, only a very few of us have a good reason to stay busy all day. We simply don't know how to organize, prioritize, and say no when we need to.
Being busy lately rarely equates to being productive. Look around you, busy people outnumber productive people. Busy people are rushing everywhere, and running in after things have started half the time. They are running their jobs, seminars, meetings, recruiting... They rarely have enough time with their families and rarely get enough sleep. Yet emails continue to shoot out of their smart phones like bullets from a machine gun, and their daily plans are squeezed like the rim of a cup with obligations. Being busy makes them feel important. But that is completely an illusion. They are more like hamsters running on a wheel.
Although being busy can make us feel more alive than any other moment, that feeling won't last forever. We cannot avoid the fact that if tomorrow or the day we were to die on our deathbed, would we wish to be less busy and live a purposeful life?
4. SOME FAILURES ALWAYS HAPPEN BEFORE SUCCESS
Most mistakes are unavoidable. Learn to forgive yourself. It's okay to do something wrong, it only becomes a problem when you don't learn anything from it.
If you are too afraid of failure, you cannot do what you need to do to succeed. The solution to this problem is to make friends with failure. Do you want to know the difference between masters and amateurs? Masters fail more times than amateurs try. Behind every ultimate success are thousands of failed attempts, but those efforts are never shown to us.
Bottom line: Just because it's not happening right now, doesn't mean it won't ever happen. Sometimes things have to go wrong before they can go right.
5. THINKING AND DOING ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS
Success never comes to you while you are waiting and thinking about it.
You are what you do, not what you say you will do. Understanding is essentially useless if not accompanied by action. Good things don't come to those who just wait, they come to those who work towards meaningful goals. Ask yourself what is truly important and have the courage to build your life around that answer.
And remember, if you wait until you feel 100% ready to start, you will most likely have to wait for the rest of your life.
6. YOU DON'T NEED TO WAIT FOR AN APOLOGY TO FORGIVE
Life will be a lot easier when you accept all the apologies you never received. The key is to be grateful for each experience – positive or negative. Look back and say, “Thank you for the lesson.” Realize that holding grudges against the past is a complete waste of today's joy, and holding on to those things is like renting free space in your head to an unnecessary company.
Forgiveness is a promise you want to keep. When you forgive someone, you are making a promise to yourself not to let the past fight against reality. There's nothing you need to do to exonerate a criminal, but there's a lot to do to free yourself from the burden of being a victim.
7. SOME PEOPLE ARE SIMPLY NOT SUITABLE FOR YOU
You'll only be as great as the people you surround yourself with, so have the courage to cut out those who pull you down. You don't have to stay in relationships with people who always make you feel less than good.
If someone makes you feel uncomfortable and insecure every time you're around, for whatever reason, they're probably not a true friend. If they make you feel like you can't be yourself, or feel "less valuable," don't make any connections with them. If you feel emotionally drained after hanging out with them or get a little nervous thinking about them, listen to your intuition. There are many people who are right for you, who energize and inspire you to be your best. There's no point forcing yourself to be with someone who isn't right for you.
8. LOVING YOURSELF IS NOT OTHERS' BUSINESS, IT'S YOUR BUSINESS
Being kind to others is important, but even more important is being kind to yourself. You must truly love yourself to achieve anything in this world. So make sure you don't see yourself through the eyes of someone else who doesn't appreciate you. Know your own worth, even when others don't.
Today, let someone love you for yourself, for your flaws. because of the lack of attraction you sometimes feel, and because of the imperfections you think of yourself. Let someone love you despite all of these things, and let that person be YOU.
9. WHAT YOU HAVE DOESN'T SAY WHO YOU ARE
Objects are, after all, just objects, and they are absolutely not responsible for who you are. Most of us can live with less material things than we think we need. It's a valuable reminder, especially in a consumer culture that focuses more on material things than meaningful connections and experiences.
You have to create your own culture. Don't watch too much TV, don't read fashion magazines all the time, and don't read too many newspapers. Find a source of strength to fill your time with meaningful experiences. The time and space you're holding right now is life, and if you're worrying about Kim Kardashian or Miley Cyrus (good examples) or any other celebrity, you're allowing it to be taken away from you. You give your life to media lies, created by big companies whose ultimate goal is to make you want to dress a certain way, look a certain way, and be a certain way. certain person. It's tragic with that kind of thinking. Real things are you, family, friends, love, hopes, plans, fears...
We often say that we are not important, we are just outside the real problem. “Get a degree, get a job, get a car, get a house, and keep looking.” It's sad, because one day you'll wake up and realize you've been scammed. And all you want then is to reclaim the mind that has been stolen by the media, who make you out to be the perfect customer by buying everything that is not really necessary to impress others, they doesn't matter at all. It's a vicious cycle, think about it.
10. EVERYTHING IS CHANGING, EVERY SECOND
Accept change and know that it always happens for a reason. It's not always easy to realize, but it's all worth it in the end.
What you have today can become what you once had tomorrow. You will never know. Things change, often very naturally. People and events come and go. Life doesn't stop for anyone. It moves quickly and goes from calm to chaos in a matter of seconds, it happens to everyone every day. It could also be happening to someone right now.
Sometimes just a split second can change the direction of our lives. A seemingly innocuous decision can shake the world like a meteorite hitting the earth. Entire lives are turned upside down, for better or for worse, with unpredictable force. And these events are always happening to someone right now.
However, whether the state is good or bad, it will change. That's something you can predict. So, when life is blooming, enjoy it. Don't look for something better. Happiness will never come to those who do not appreciate what they have.
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